Monday, April 8, 2013

All Nations Have Their Dirty Little Secrets......


All nations have there "dirty little secrets" - the "fat cats" at the top of N. Korean govt. made MILLIONS selling opium and methamphetamines to China while close to 1 million North Koreans died of starvation. It doesn't matter if the country is capatalist, socialist or communist - it's always the "fat cats" at the top and their billions while the ordinary citizens struggle. http://www.rfa.org/english/news/korea/drug-06212011112301.html
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Falkland Islands......take a HINT, Argentina!!!!!

Argentina is at it again!!  Trying to stir up trouble claiming that the people of the Falkland Islands (which they refer to as "Las Malvinas") WANT to belong to Argentina instead of U.K.

So last month (March 2013) there was a referendum BY THE PEOPLE who live in the Falklands as to which country they choose to give their loyalty. 

Of 1,518 votes cast during the two-day poll, 1,513 came out in favour of maintaining the islands' current political status (belonging to U.K., NOT Argentina!), representing 99.8 per cent of the vote. One ballot paper was rejected and one remained unaccounted for after the count on Monday night. That left three people who desire either immediate independence from Britain or a transfer of sovereignty, presumably to Argentina, which claims the islands as its own. I have a suggestion.  Those 3 should move to Argentina.  

Port Stanley is a small place – the entire Falklands enjoy a population of only 2,900 permanent and guest residents.  But obviously 99.8 % want to be part of the United Kingdom.

Today Margaret Thatcher died at age 87 as a result of a stroke.  She was probably U.K.'s strongest Prime Minister since Winston Churchill.  I am saddened she is gone; it was a loss for the world.  I felt VERY badly that Argentina's newspapers had the audacity to report "she died, having had dementia....probably as a result of too many gin and tonics".  That was unkind.  Then again, the Argentines have no love for her - she called their bluff on the Falkland Islands war in the 1980's and won! 

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Sunday, April 7, 2013

"Crossing the Line" - the lonliest human on the planet.....

Watched an excellent British documentary by Daniel Gordon called "Crossing the Line" http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0473181/  about a U.S. Army soldier named James Dresnok who at barely age 20 defected from South Korea (where he was posted) to North Korea in 1962.  I watched it twice because sometimes one misses things the first time around.

Why did he defect - actually to escape being court martialed for forging a signature on a "leave pass".  But his past was very troubled.  He never finished High School and apparently was abandoned by his father to a "home" (orphanage type place) in Virginia at a young age.  To escape that life he joined the Army at age 17.

After he defected - there were sad twists and turns.  Three other American soldiers also "defected" to North Korea. Of course there were the usual months of "interrogation" (probably torture as well, but the North Korean censors would have never allowed that to be said).  In 1965 all four Americans decided they really didn't want to live in North Korea after all....so they went to the Russian Embassy to try to defect to the then Soviet Union....the Russians not only turned them down, but also reported them to the North Korean authorities.  One has to assume that they were treated very badly after that incident, but again, not much was said on that subject. 

James married a woman from Romania (and how she ended up in North Korea was not explained very well); they had two very handsome sons.  She died of lung cancer.  James went on to make propaganda films for the North Koreans often portraying a cruel American Imperialist named Arthur.  He became fluent in Korean. 

But the sad twists kept turning up.  Firstly, he smokes cigarettes like a chimney and drinks like a fish - the doctors tell him he will die of either smoking or drinking, but he continues to smoke and drink.  He remarried a woman of Korean and Togolese heritage and has (around the time of the film he was in his late 60's) a very young son by her.....the son appears to be a toddler.  Selfishly, he continues to smoke and drink - not thinking who will care for his little son (or even his wife) when he dies.  North Korea is an extremely homogeneous state.....anyone who doesn't look Korean is avoided.  His wife (being half-African) does not look Korean, nor does his youngest son, nor do his two older sons by the Romanian wife.  The eldest son goes to University of Foreign Studies in Pyongyang.  He speaks English fluently, but with a definite Korean accent.  He looks European.  He says he considers himself Korean (but later adds that he would not wish to marry a Korean).

There is a scene in a Pyongyang bowling alley that is especially sad.  You realize at that point that he and his family have NO FRIENDS - no Koreans go out with them.  They can only go out as a family.  It is not only that their looks betray them as not being "Korean" but the North Koreans must have terribly resented that during the famine years in the 1990's while North Korean children were starving of hunger - James and his family were living in a Pyongyang apartments with a monthly stipend, eating well, drinking Jack Daniels (James was). 

It is clear that James is going to die soon as he will not quit smoking or drinking.  He will leave behind four individuals who (without a "film star" status) will probably end up being treated quite badly because of the way they look.  Also, although James is a Party Member.....once he dies, he may be spoken of in a not-so-nice way.  There is a North Korean tradition that if one member of the family does something against the State, the "sin" is not forgiven for three generations.  We learned from other documentaries that the "sin" might be opening a newspaper that had a photo of Kim Il-Sung or Kim Jong-il or current leader Kim Jong-un.....and if that newspaper with the photo is placed down on the ground.....it is considered "disrespecting" the Great Father.  It is enough of a crime to be arrested for (and three generations of the arrested person's family will PAY for that crime as well).

You can come to your own conclusions after watching the film.  But, to me it was very sad and open-ended.

       
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Friday, February 15, 2013

Delly!!!!

What would our lives be without our sweet Delly?????  She is the sweetest little angel (and has gradually helped us to get over losing our sweet Billy).

CANNOT even believe that anyone would THROW this sweet girl (and her puppy, Chippers) in a "high kill shelter" in Arkansas.  Who could throw this sweet gal (and if I show you a photo of her puppy, you'll go GOO-GOO-GAH-GAH!!) away????  Thankfully - gracias a SWEET foster-Mum named Cora - both Delly & Chipper were fostered until a good home was found - we definitely fell in love w/ Delly and adopted her.  Cora has many dogs (her own and fostered) and her own doggies are getting UP THERE in years, so she decided to adopt "Chipper" - Delly's pup.  Chipper is now BIGGER than her Mum (We think the "father" must've been a big Yorkie - just guessing).

AND - can you believe this BRAVE girl FLEW on American Airlines from Little Rock, AK to Chicago to Rochester, NY??  There she was in her cage when we went to get her - a little scared (I would've been TOTALLY scared no knowing WHERE I was going or why I was in a cage in an airline!).....she licked Laxmi's hand and was our baby ever since.  That was October, 2012 - she has since decided she loves PAPA the most - and that's OK - we all love her and she's a joy and blessing to our lives

Her antics are so, so cute - she likes to pose as a WOODCHUCK and can stay that way for 20-30 minutes - we never taught her that.  She loves CLOTHES (sweathers, coats, etc.) but....if she gets too warm, she knows how to take them off!!  If she is cold - she will grab the baby blanket (the one she knows is hers) in her teeth and cover herself - what a riot!!

She brings us constant JOY and we LOVE her so, so much!!!



What would be ENOUGH???







We met a retired real estate agent who stopped me each an every time (sometimes I really try hard to run away from her!) that the NEW owners of the Bed & Breakfast are making money "hand over fist".  Well, I am happy for them, most honestly I am.  I did the best I could, failed, and moved on to something else.

Nando asks sometimes "Do you want to start another B&B?"  "No way!" I reply.  It wasn't that I didn't love 99.9% of the clients (I did!) but there were the ones who just could not be pleased no matter what.  A very drunk couple decided to make love in the shower but didn't want the WATER to bother them, so.....they turned the shower faucet to the FLOOR - "tick, tick, tick" the water began to leak downstairs.  We had a horrible leak and ended up pounding on their door (which we hate to do).  Our handyman said "I'll fix that! - I'll make it so they can't turn it to the floor" - but what happened???  We got complaints that the ladies' hairdo was all messed up THANKS to our shower....it COULD move - it just couldn't move to the floor.

And then there was the nasty lady who left her dirty sanitary napkins IN the bed - too lazy to use the trash.  AND the spoiled brat who because he didn't get to change the dates to his wishes (we were sold out the night he wanted to switch to) used our towels to CLEAN his muddy, dirty shoes. 

I hear the current place has flat-screen TV's in each room (some smaller than others) - but is it EVER enough??  We used to get people who ate out and wanted to keep their food in our fridge - NO PROBLEM.....but then they complained because the room didn't have a microwave to reheat the food. 

No, I don't miss the ones who could never be pleased.  The ones we LOVED - are STILL friends with us and we still love them.

I have no hard feelings; I've moved on to a different life with more time for my husband and daughter.  She and I play "What's the Word" games daily and we have also "downsized" our house to represent more of what WE want to keep, not what others want us to keep.

Life goes on, yes it does!

Egregious!!





Hoping you all know the meaning of the word "egregious" as in "what an EGREGIOUS (outrageous) statement!"

Some people open their mouths and make egregious statements.  They don't THINK of the consequences their words may have on others.  Sometimes these statements FESTER over the years because initially one cannot believe such a statement was made - we try as humans to "forget/forgive" but eventually those egregious words come back and smack us like a huge slap.  Usually, it is 5-7 years later but we VOICE it out - and then we are told "oh, didn't know you KEPT A GRUDGE so many years!!!" 

From TODAY - I vow I will not be manipulated by other human beings, no matter how much they claim to be my "friend".  If they make an egregious statement, I vow to now say "That remark was EGREGIOUS!!  Do you realize how it hurt me?  Are you prepared to continue our friendship or end it?  How important is it to you to make that hurtful statement?"

We have always been the type of neighbour/friend that (no matter what past hurts there were) if we were called at 11:00 p.m. to help move someone's husband off the floor where he fell (half expecting we might have to call an ambulance, but pleased he was only just SHOCKED and we were able to put him to bed).....we GO without question.

Those who don't believe in God - I guess you won't have to "answer" to anyone about your life and how you lived it.  We happen to believe in God very much and strive our present lives to be good and an inspiration.  Actually, I haven't figured out how athiests think.....do they believe that when they die that's IT - that's the END??  They were just born to die and that's it??  I have a good friend who is an athiest and I often wonder (as she is much older than I am) what she thinks about her END (and we ALL go to that point!).

Try not to make an egregious statement to anyone - it cannot be taken back.  Once I heard a story about a woman who loved to "gossip" - she was Catholic and went to her priest to ask how she could stop gossiping.  He told her to gather a bunch of feathers on a windy day and take them to the centre of the market square and set them down.  "But they ALL blew away!!!" she exclaimed to the priest.  "Yes, alas, that is what they do and once gone, there isn't a way to retrieve them".